Yo, what’s up fam! Let’s talk about something real today — fake friends. Yeah, those ones who smile in your face but throw shade the second you turn around. If you’ve ever felt off vibes from someone close, this content for you. Today, I’m breaking down 3 Signs They’re NOT Your Friends.
SIGN #1 – They Only Come Around When They Need Something
Ever notice how they ghost you for weeks, but suddenly pop up when they need a favor? That’s not friendship — that’s convenience. Real friends check in just because. They don’t treat you like a vending machine for emotional support, money, or rides. If every convo starts with “Hey, can you…” and ends with them dipping right after, you’ve got a user, not a friend. Look out for that energy drain, because true friends give and take. If they’re only ever taking, they’re not in your circle — they’re using it.
SIGN #2 – They Disrespect You in Front of Others
If your “friend” loves making jokes at your expense, especially around other people, that’s not love — that’s low-key bullying. Pay attention to how they act when there’s an audience. Are they hyping you up, or tearing you down for laughs? Real ones defend you when you’re not around and stand beside you when you are. If they’re always throwing shade, laughing when others disrespect you, or making you feel small, they’re not friends — they’re haters in disguise. Watch their actions, not just their words.
SIGN #3 – They Don’t Celebrate Your Wins
When something good happens for you, do they clap… or go quiet? Jealousy is loud in silence. A real friend will hype you up like you just won an Oscar. If they suddenly act distant, downplay your success, or try to one-up you every time you share good news, that’s a red flag wrapped in envy. You need people who push you forward, not those who secretly wish you’d fall behind. Pay attention to who claps when you win — that’s your real team.
CONCLUSION
Life’s too short to be surrounded by fake energy. Protect your peace, protect your vibe, and most of all — protect your circle. If you saw someone’s face while watching this, it might be time to reevaluate that connection.